Hi Linda. I ordered Soul Mate Power candles because my boyfriend and I were slowly drifting apart and he was becoming less communicative. The day the candles arrived before I lit them, he called me to see how I was. After a week we were beginning to slowly do things together, going out for day trips, bike riding, concerts, just like we used to do. He has even invited me to come to a wedding with him. The candles have really helped and I will continue to burn them. They smell good and the ritual of preparing them is also quite calming. Thanks Linda for introducing them to me. I will keep you posted.